Do you love your mate? Do you want a more fulfilling life with them?
If the answer to these questions is yes you must find the time to work on your relationship. You find the time to do extra things in your job so you can be more successful. Only you can decide whether your relationship means enough to you to do whatever it takes to make it better.
First, you need to identify your dreams. To do this you need to make a list of your dreams. After you have listed your dreams you need to narrow them down to the top three in importance.
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sting your dreams take care to insure none of the dreams involve changing your mate. Anything that involves changing another person is not a dream, it's a fantasy. Fantasies don't come true often. Putting your dreams in writing make them real. It also makes them easier to remember which in turn makes them easier to accomplish.Once you have put your dreams on paper list them into realistic goals with realistic time frames.
Dream: Have mate desire being with you more than anything else
Goal: Have a deeper more fulfilling relationship with your mate
Date: May 1, 2009
That gives you around 10 weeks to move towards your goal. Now you need to make a list of things to help you reach that goal.
Week 1: Say 'I Love You' more often
Week 2: Kiss passionately three times a day for no reason,
wanting nothing in return
Week 3: Take mate on a 'date'
Week 4: Do mates least favorite household chore for them
etc., etc., etc.,
Remember, as you are making your list, what your goal is. Make certain to take small steps every week to accomplish each particular goal.
The reason I only placed one activity per week, per goal is, you have three goals you want to reach. You could have the same activity to reach each goal but you may have different activities each week for each goal. You don't want to turn this into a job. But you must also remember to make anything a success you must spend time working on it. That includes your love relationship.
You also don't want these things to be temporary. To have a close love relationship you need to work on it consistently.
Now, go get your pen and paper and start working on the dreams of your youth. The rewards will be well worth the effort.
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